What I am about to say, everyone knows and can understand but yet… the question remains are you ready to hear the truth and follow the path that you must travel in order to get to a better place… to get to where you’re going… to get to where you want to be?
If you answered yes and you’re listening in right now then I believe you have desire. I believe you’re ready to move onto better times and that you’re ready to make strides towards your own personal, professional and life goals.
No matter what your goals are (health and wellness, fitness, nutrition, relationship management, professional performance, recovery) whatever they are, what I am about to share with you really works and it all starts as soon as you give yourself full permission for serious and meaningful change to happen to you.
You have to allow yourself to be successful. You have to give yourself permission to succeed.
Think it’s easy… it’s not.
Self imposed doubt, low self esteem, lack of confidence, fear of success, lack of support, a negative attitude, a minimalist mindset, fear of failure and bad habits are examples of the kind of things that make the seemingly simple task of giving yourself the power to receive the permission you need to succeed, not only hard but virtually impossible.
And when you feel that way, you start to think that way and soon you start to act that way and then you become a believer. Believing in it is like lying in it, it literally becomes a part of you, it becomes the essential being of your existence.
It consumes you!
So let me ask, what’s your PERMISSION BLOCKER?….
Better yet let me rephrase the question this way?
What’s HOLDING you back, what’s really STOPPING you from getting ahead, from reaching your goals?
This is an important question and the answer is even more important because identifying the problem gives rise to the opportunity to fix it. It’s the difference between standing still and moving ahead.
But first, you have to know what is holding you back, because the unknown is the resting place of fear and fear holds you still, it takes away your vision and it sabotages you’re thoughts.
Let’s take a look at it…
Fear holds you in place… When you’re scared you’re still because you’re not sure when or where or even what your next move should be.
Fear takes away your vision… When you’re scared you imagine the worst of the worst and you see terrible things happening.
Fear sabotages your thoughts… You start thinking about what will happen and how it will feel as your mind runs wild with crazy possibilities and visions of negative outcomes.
You must ERASE the unknown and eliminate fear by identifying your permission blocker.
Your permission blocker is your fear, they’re one in the same.
Once you know what it is then you can deal with it, break it down and conquer it. Think about it, talk about it and get some help if you need it…. coaching, counseling, support groups, whatever it takes….
Because YOU ARE WORTH IT!
Let me say that again. That should not be taken lightly. Because it’s true and I know that some people have never heard that said to them before or at best they haven’t heard it told to then in quite a long time.
YOU ARE WORTH IT!
Your dreams are worth it, your feelings are worth it and now it’s up to you to do the work that has to be done.
Remember, the road to success begins in the mind, resonates in the heart and then it shows up in the words we speak and in the actions we take. You’ve heard it before …
MIND, BODY, SPIRIT.
Think about it. If you turn around the setbacks that are blocking your permission to succeed then you’re actually going to reach your goals and when you do, you will reach those goals exactly when you’re supposed to, in the precise way that you’re supposed to.
It will all naturally unfold.
But you have to be willing to be vulnerable, courageous and strong in your own personal resolve. It takes patience and it takes persistence.
One of my favorite quotes says…
Fear knocked, FAITH answered and nothing was there…
Remember “Your reach only goes as far as your desire….”
This is the beginning. This is the right way to get started and the best way to rewrite a new and successful outcome.
You do it by giving yourself the power permission.